Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Mashonda Airs Out Alicia Keys on Twitter


We guess Swizz Beatz wasn't successful in imposing a gag order on estranged wife Mashonda, because she took to Twitter last week to air out Alicia Keyes, whom she calls, in not so many words, a homewrecker. Wait, she did call her a homewrecker. Apparently now that Alicia and Swizz are out with their love, Mashonda still feels that Alicia is being insensitive.

Alicia was recording and Tweeted some random thoughts: “Having a heated debate n the studio. Question is...N love is it better to go 4 the choice that is "SMART" or the choice that has "SPARK"??"

"Studio debates are always random and funny! LOL! I stay out of them. I'm GOOOODDD!!! ;-) ;-)" "evn the things u might b ashamed of,love is feelin comfort&safe wit some1,but still gettin weak knees whn they walk n2 a room & smile at u...." "love is knowin all abt some1, & still wantin 2 b wit thm more thn any other persn. love is trustin the enuf 2 tell thm everythin abt urself," "I don't pretend 2 no wht luv is 4 every1, I can tell u wht it is for me;"

Well, those messages set Mashonda off, and in a lengthy tweet, she decided to get at Alicia, woman to woman.

[ read it after the jump ]


"After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I've never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I've reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

"I was a fan of AK's last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

"Already I can hear some of you saying " why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken". Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

"My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.

"If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.

"Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would've handled things more carefully. I'm not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now

"This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don't have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!

"I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what's real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the "people", this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

"I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don't understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.

"If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I'm not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.

"To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.

"Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity."



Question: Doesn't Mashonda have Alicia's - or knows someone who has Alicia's - telephone number?


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6 comments:

Anonymous said...

I always thought Alicia was a dyke!

Anonymous said...

Alicia comes off a bit dykey b/c of her deep voice, but she's far from it. And for crying out loud Mashonda, I couldn't get past the 3rd paragraph. Chile you need to fall back. Get yourself a new man and call it a day and forget about them. You sound wack as if you're the only one this sh*t has happened to. I'm not condoning what went down, but that damn letter is not the move. I would've sent Alicia some black roses. A letter? sounds like you stuck in grade school.

Anonymous said...

I still think Alicia is a "boi" and this "relationship is an arrangement set up by Clive Davis, longtime closeted music producer.

Anonymous said...

I love AK and I will continue to support her as an artist becasuse she makes great music. However AK is wrong as well as SB. As for Mashonda I understand your hurt because I was some what in your shoe but I was the AK in the situation. The SB in my situation said the marriage was ending and I went for it. We did get married and 4 years later 2 children he did it to me. So the lessons learned is if a person will cheat with you they will cheat on you and when it is a situation such as this one never take the word of the person that your trying to have the relationship with check our everything and put yourself in the wifes place it's always 3 sides to a story yours mines and the truth. It took time I have moved on and my children and I are happy. LT I am truely sorry for being so selfish and thank you for the frindship and understanding we have built so that our children can grow and know one another as sisters and brothers. You are a real SUPERWOMAN.

Anonymous said...

I think Mashonda handled it well. What would be messed up is if she and Alicia did discuss this privately, but Alicia blasted her. I pray for Ms. Keys diligently and daily because of this situation. I don't want her to burn in hell over Swiss. She was my inspiration until I found this out. However I often think about if someone or people found out about mistakes I made and treated me different afterwords.

They were both dead wrong. If we ALL pray for Swiss, Mashonda and Alicia, I'm sure the situation will work out. God will deal with Swiss and Alicia, no bad deed goes unpunished. You will reap what you sow whether good or bad.

Anonymous said...

Who airs their personal business on Twitter? Seriously?!

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