Friday, April 24, 2009

Cocktail Thinks She's Ray J's Girlfriend

Despite the fact that VH1 has greenlit a second season of For the Love of Ray J, the top hooch (winner of season one), better known as Cocktail, in this interview with VH1, still thinks Ray J loves her and they're in a relationship.

A jumpoff perhaps, but girlfriend? Bitch, please! Please put down your cocktail and get a sip of reality.

What has your communication with Ray been like since the show wrapped?
If we don’t talk everyday, we at least text each other. We make a point to see each other at least twice a month. That’s just what our schedules can fit. He’s on the road and doing stuff, and lately, I’ve been on the road as well, with appearances and whatnot.

What’s the status of your relationship? Is he your boyfriend?
Yeah. He’s my boyfriend, and the fact that I’m not seeing my boyfriend as much as I’d like to is different from what I’m used to. I would love to see him everyday and have him come home to me every night. But that’s not what it is, and I have to take it for what it is. I’m patiently learning his lifestyle. I expected this, but I’m sad now that I’m going through it. But it just makes the times I see him even more special.

Do you love him?
I do. I’m in love with him. I’m head over heels. When I tell my girlfriends that they’re like, “Are you kidding me?” No, this is the only man in my life right now that can say anything to me and make me fall into tears. It takes someone that I care about to go through with that emotion and show my vulnerability. I know I cried every three seconds on the show, but I care about him so much that he can say anything, the sweetest thing, the most horrible thing, and I burst into tears. I’m so overwhelmed.

What did you think when that was turned on you and your participation on the Bad Girls Club became a plot point? Did you think you’d be eliminated?
No. The girls were kind of talking about it early on. When I entered the house, they told me I looked familiar. I kind of just drew the attention away from myself. I knew then that I would have to address it to Ray at some point, but I didn’t early on because I didn’t want him to think I was there for the wrong reasons. I knew that if nobody said anything and I was the first to later on, maybe he’d get to know me a little bit and not eliminate me because I was on another reality show. I thought I could at least get to the point where he gave me the benefit of the doubt.

That was good strategy, too. Any thoughts on being portrayed as a gold-digger on Bad Girls Club and then ending up with a guy who makes considerable bank on this show?
The whole gold-digger thing was honestly something I said to better my chances of getting on a show that I thought had a different purpose. I thought that by saying I was something I wasn’t, it would give me an image. I thought it was going to make me more of an interesting character for people to watch. That’s the only reason I said things like that. If I was really like that, I would come out in things that I say or my personality. I’m a social worker. I’m not into that. If you look back on my roster of ex-boyfriends, none of them are wealthy. None are famous. Nothing. I’m a down-to-earth type of gal. I don’t date men for their status. If people judge me on saying I’m a gold-digger three years ago, so be it. But it was for entertainment purposes. I wanted to be on TV. And it wasn’t even like I was a main character. I was a replacement, and I was boring.

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13 comments:

swaggaqueen699 said...

omg cotail

Anonymous said...

im sooo happy he picked you cocktail i do not like unique ugh every since she got smart with my gurl danger uh huh i'm so happy for you guy i wish you the best of luck

muah
shantell ford

GOODPUSSYDOOLY"09" said...

SHE IS A HOE CAUSE SHE GOT 3 BOY FRIEND AND SHE DO NOT LIKE BLACK PEOPLES 4 REAL SHE JUST GOING WITH HIM 4 HIS MONEY.......

GOODPUSSYDOOLY"09" said...

she got 3 boy friends and she a hoe.and she just going with him 4 his money like she did her last 3 boy friends.........an she do not like black peoples....

Anonymous said...

cocktail is a dumb bitch looking for her 5 minutes of fame

Anonymous said...

GOODPUSSYDOOLU*09* UR A COMPLETE IDIOT...LEARN HOW TO WIRTE AND SPEAK B4 U TRY TO GET ALL BIG ON SOMEONE..LOOKS ALOT BETTER FOR URSELF U KNOW?? ALSO, I HAVE ONE MORE THING...STOP HATING!!!!

Anonymous said...

From what I seen on TV, he does like her as well. I hope that if he isn't into her, that he has enough "man" in him to tell her. I don't think she is a gold digger, and if she is, she is a good one. I usually can read folks and she seemed sincere. If it isn't what she thinks it is, Ray needs to tell her, especially if he is doing another show.

Anonymous said...

i relly dont care har past is har past i love cocktail you remine me of me fuck all the ohter girl

Anonymous said...

Okay, Ray J is probably not into cocktail but he does not need her thinkin dat he loves her thats so mess up!!!!!!! Cocktail needs better then that!!!! Sorry, Ray J you are a great guy in all but u need to be single for a while... i love u ray j and im a huge fan!!!!!!!! Lol!

diva4life said...

i wanted him to pick danger,until i seen that cocktail was ment for him and she really cares for him,i say he shouldn't hurt her,she has a warm heart,but iif their ment to be they'll be,i know i would like to see the both of them happy together

Anonymous said...

Sorry cocktail sweetie, but you and Ray J were never going to be a real couple. It was all for Tv, I'm sure that you got a good pay from all of this but take that and move on with your life. It's not going to happen so wake up and smell the coffee. Ray couldn't love a chick that comes on Tv to be with him and haves SEX on a national TV show!!!!

Anonymous said...

Ray J...Reality TV...playing with peoples emotions although you need to realise that all they looking for is the 'drama' - dats wat makes gud tv.

Cocktail huni, you are H.O.T so use your 5 minutes of fame to get wats yours...paparazzi baby yeah!

Anonymous said...

ANONYMOUS GURL YU BE TRIPPIN COCKTAIL JUST BE DATIN HIM 4 HIS MONEY! AND GOODPUSSYDOOLU*09* WAZ TELLIN THE TRUTH.IF SHE WAZNT A GOLD-DIGGER Y WOULD SHE HAVE SAID SHE WAZ ON THE SHOW ND DIDNT TELL RAY??THAT DDNT EVEN MAKE SENCE!ND SHE SAID THAT SHE WANTED 2 B ON TV SO THAT SHOWS THAT ITS ACTUALLY TRUE,,SHE WAZ ONLY THERE 4 THE CAMERAS ND AL THAT SHYT!!!UGH I F****N HATE HER!!

BY THE WAY GOODPUSSYDOOLU*09*'S WRITIN DOES MAKE SENCE,,I HAVE A FEELIN UR NOT BLACK THATS Y U WAZNT ABLE 2 READ IT!!

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