Friday, June 12, 2009

Cocktail Confirms Break Up with Ray J


Cocktail has finally come to the realization that she can't find love on a dating reality show and that Ray J didn't want her.

Remember way back in April she was talking about how much she loved Ray J, despite VH1 announcing - way back then - that he will be back for a second season? Plus, he was allegedly still creepin with Lil Kim and Whitney.

Well, she tells Bossip:
“Just like any other relationship we took it day by day. We would hang out, have fun, laugh, share stories, and watch TV. Over time as we got to know each other more and more he would tell me things and often times they would hurt my feelings. I guess the brutal truth about him not being exclusive with me and still ‘hooking up’ with girls made me realize that it wasn’t going to work. I hate feeling like I failed and let’s be real no woman likes to quit a relationship so I tried to stick it out. I wanted to be his only one not just his number one.

After awhile Ray eventually realized that I was truly genuine and sat me down to tell me that we were not going to work out. Then the Season 2 bomb was dropped on me. What makes me mad is that I asked him if there was going to be a season 2 and he lied to my face. He sweet talked me both times I asked. Aside from that, the breaking point was when we went on tour. He didn’t come back to the room at night and I heard the whispers about him being in other rooms with girls. It made me mad because he knew he could be honest with me but he chose not to be. At this point, I emotionally checked out.”

Girl, sit down.


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8 comments:

Anonymous said...

No woman should be naive enough to believe that Ray-J is about to settle down with any ONE woman. Ray knows he needs to milk whatever celeb status he can muster ('cause he ain't selling out venues) and he's not about to pass up the $$ from VH1 or pass up the chance to get freaky with a house full of women. Cocktail is cute enough, has a hott body, and appears to be a chick loyal to "her man." Ray-J simply was never really "her" man. But, it's all entertainment! It's funny how Flav, Ray-J, Real & Chance try to get all bent when they think a girl is on the show "for the cameras."... someone should ask THEM the same. -Mr.A

Anonymous said...

Ray J is not ready to settle down if he's gonna go off to other girls! He at the beginning of season 1 that he was ready to settle down and have a family i guess that just proves that men are dogs but you do find that special someone that really does want to settle down! If i had to tell Cocktail anything it would be to keep your head up high and keep looking cause the one for you is out there!

Mikey Jay said...

what makes any of ya'll think u know how ray feels? he could be ready to settle down just doesnt wanna settle for less. talkin bout cocktail like she a hoe. please spare me man just cuz she doin pics posin lookin good in a bathing suit. every other actress has done it at one point or another ya'll dont call all them hoes. yall juss jealous as fuck haha. credits.

Anonymous said...

Ray J doesn't want to settle down..especially on a reality television show. Like the previous comment said...Ray J isn't a big star and therefore has to make $$$ somehow cause he isn't doing it by selling records. Trust...Ray J ain't goona find love in season 1, 2 ,3 or how ever long they VH1 decides to write checks.

Anonymous said...

ray j is so fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee and he wants to be with meeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Anonymous said...

Cocktail says she emotionally checked out well she mentally checked out too. Come on does she really think Ray loves her. I saw the season 2 reunion show and she was carrying on like a stalker Ray wanted nothing to do with her and she kept following him and crying Ray "i loved you" it was pathetic

Anonymous said...

first of all im gangsta so i can deal with a gangsta man he couldn't come at me with anything that i couldn't handle. Ray j couldn't handle me i deal with the toughest so Ray j would be a piece of cake

Anonymous said...

ishhhhhh Ray J woulda chosen me after the first week there im totally gangsta r u kiddin me? Ray would have been all the way in love and wouldn'ta known his shoes from his socks. after the show was over and he woulda been ready to settle down with me and get married i got that affect on men always have and always will

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